Friday, September 2, 2011

Tough Breakup? How to get back with your ex girlfriend.


After a break up, you may be left feeling confused or anxious. You may wonder how to get back with your ex girlfriend not be sure if your ex girlfriend even wants to get back with you. This is too common actually, and many people get stuck here..... which means they don't pursue their ex girlfriend..... and they never get back together with their ex.

Don't Let Confusion Stop You.......

You can get back with your ex girlfriend.... No Matter HOW or WHY You Broke Up! Getting your girlfriend to want you back is much easier than you may think. Many people try too hard which pushes their ex girlfriend away.

Ok.... I'm telling you don't give up, don't go too fast, don't try too hard.... WHAT DO YOU DO?!?

The trick is baby steps....

Start by working on you...... Relax...... Breathe........
You may be confused as to why the break up happened, you may feel that you did something so bad that your ex girlfriend will not forgive you..... Or maybe she did something to you....... No matter.

The important thing is for you to accept the break up and put it behind you. Look toward the future now.....

What do you want? You want to get back with your ex girlfriend. Right?
So now, how do you get the attention of your ex girlfriend?

This is where you want to not get over excited and go too fast. Your purpose here is to get yourself back on her mind.... in a positive way.... She may be thinking about you still, but may be angry or saddened about some things that happened. Remember, your ex girlfriends emotions are much stronger than yours. So, if you are having a tough time with the break up, imagine how she is feeling.....

The best way to get her attention is with a HANDWRITTEN letter. Not a text message, not an e-mail, a handwritten letter. It doesn't even have to be a love letter. In fact, its better if it's not a love letter at this point.... Remember, baby steps……
A simple letter telling her that you are fine and that you believe the break up was for the best. Ask her how she’s doing and make sure that you let her know that you are doing just fine. I would not suggest getting back together at all at this point. You may suggest being friends at this point, but that may be moving too fast as well….. Adding your phone number below your signature is a good way to suggest that she call you without actually asking her to do so.
This is a great start to get back with your ex girlfriend. Patience is important here….. It may be difficult to wonder if she even cares, wait a couple of days for a response and if you get none, write her another letter and talk to her like you would your best friend.

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