Saturday, September 3, 2011

Communication: Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend

Do you talk to your ex girlfriend? Do you want to talk to her, but not sure how or if she will even want to talk to you? Maybe you have tried to contact her and she rejected you or it turned into a fight..... These are the main reasons why I would not recommend trying to call or text your ex girlfriend unless you are already on speaking terms. This post is designed to help you open a line of communication with your ex....

So, when you want to communicate with someone, what are our options? You could call, text, e-mail, post on a social networking site like Facebook, Twitter, etc.... OR.... you could go old school and write a letter. I would suggest a handwritten letter any day over the other methods and here's why....

Phone calls are easy to ignore, it's easy to get worked up and start yelling or get yelled at, and if you call over and over it could seem irritating or even get to the point of harassment.... All things you don't want.....

Text messages are simple, but easy to ignore.... they are not very personal, and it is usually easier for someone to tell you off over a text message than anywhere else.

E-mail is better than texting, but still easy to ignore and not very personal.... How easy would it be to hit the delete button just because she is upset at that moment?

Social network comments are not personal at all. Sure you can send a private message, but still... I have seen some very big arguments and fights over relationships start on these sites... Usually things are said that are not meant and the relationship is torn even farther apart.

This is why I suggest the old fashion HANDWRITTEN letter to help you get back with your ex girlfriend.... It's very personal.... It's not very easy to ignore. Chances are, if she ignores it at first, she will set it somewhere and read it later. Sure she could throw it away, but this is going to be your best bet... and who's to say she won't regret throwing it away and go dig it out of the trash later? This really does happen, I have seen it....

>>More reasons why a handwritten letter is the best way to win back your girlfriend.... It is tangible.... by this, I mean that it is something she can hold onto and read whenever and wherever she wants to. Curiosity will get the best of her and she will want to read it at some point. Maybe she will wait until she is alone....

You can capitalize on this..... This is going to be the one time to get her attention and to put yourself back on her mind. It is like a first impression.... you will want it to be good. Now you know the best method to get your ex girlfriend to talk to you again..... what should you write in your letter? I'll explain more about effective ways to your handwritten letter to get back your ex girlfriend in my next post.

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